There are always signs to know when you reach a point that you’re not happy with your marriage anymore. These signs are observable, not just by you but by people around you.
Why become unhappy with marriage anyway? One reason that is most likely to appear in surveys with marriage couples is compatibility. You and your partner are not just compatible with each other. Compatibility sometimes is learned more over time, even when you have kids already.
Compatibility is so hard to measure or to predict. Maybe the only solution to compatibility issues is going steady for a while with your partner without getting married first. Getting to know each other is a serious part of a relationship. This is where you develop friendship and a deeper understanding of each other's emotional capabilities.
So how to know if someone is unhappy with his/her married life?
1. He or she flirts with another party. Third party comes to the picture.
2. He or she tells friends about it.
3. He or she spends more quality time with friends than with his or her partner.
4. He or she doesn’t talk so much about his/her partner’s achievements.
5. He or she wastes time for himself/herself, instead of being with his/her partner often.
6. He or she never brags (or at least say) to his/her friends about how much he/she loves his/her partner.
7. For the wife, she talks about other men. For the husband, he talks about other women.
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